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Cyberbullying - Threatening Our Youth

John Mitty Thursday, April 25, 2013

Bellmore, NY, April 19, 2013 – As the trial of two young men begins involving the sexual assault, cyber bullying and suicide

of a California high school student, it is critical that everyone be aware of this latest phenomenon of cyber bullying that is

threatening the well-being and lives of young people everywhere.

The reported statistics for cyber bullying of online teens is alarming:

· 32% have been targets of annoying or potentially menacing messages;
· 38% of all girls report being bullied; and 41% of older girls (ages 15-17) report being bullied;
· 39% of social network users have been cyberbullied compared with 22% of teens who do not use social networks;
· 13% have had an experience online that made them nervous to go to school the next day;
· 55% “look the other way” when they see someone else being mean or cruel online;
· Only 1 in 6 parents know their child has been bullied over social media;
· “Hyper-networking” teens (those who spend more than three hours per school day on social networks) are

110% more likely to be a victim of cyberbullying.

“There are warning signs that a child may be a victim of cyberbullying that parents should be aware of,” states Laura Campbell,

Community Educator at Long Island Crisis Center. “It could be changes in behavior that include: appearing sad, moody or anxious;

avoiding school; withdrawing from social activities; experiencing a drop in grades; appearing upset after using the computer; or

appearing upset after viewing a text message.”

Parents need to be proactive in this assault on their children:

· Tell your child that you know about cyberbullying and ask if s/he or their friends have ever experienced it;
· Emphasize that you do not blame them if they are being cyberbullied and that you will not take away their computer/phone

privileges; the threat of losing their computer/phone time is the main reason kids don’t tell adults when they are cyberbullied;

· Listen carefully and don’t trivialize what they are experiencing. Some events may not seem like a big deal to you, but are a

serious blow to their self-esteem;

· Teach your child what to do in cases where s/he feels threatened or bullied;
· Set rules about online time;
· Make sure that you know their screen names and passwords and that they don’t include any personal information in their online

profiles;

· Explain that cyberbullying is unacceptable. Tell them that you expect responsible online behavior and there will be consequences

for inappropriate behavior;

· Become familiar with each person that is on your child’s social media network.

For information about a cyber bullying presentation for your school or community group, call Long Island Crisis Center at 516/826-0244.

For support, short-term counseling and resources and referrals, call the Crisis Center’s 24/7 hotline at 516-679-1111 or online chat at

www.licconline.org or text LICC to 839863.

jmitty@longislandyellowpages.com

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